Thursday 16 July 2009

Why Girls Like You More When You Don't Care About Them

Have you ever noticed that girls you don't care about seem to like you more than those you go out of your way to please? I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. If it has never happened to you, I'm pretty sure it has happened to someone you know.

I've lost count of the number of times it has happened to me. I'll meet a girl, get her number, talk to her a few times, meet her once, probably go all the way with her once and then forget about her. To me, she has become a part of my "past". To her, it's just the beginning.

She would call, send SMS and even visit my flat unannounced. Despite all her efforts, I'll still treat her shabbily and she will keep coming back for more. I won't call her. I won't talk to her but she keeps coming back. It seems the comes back for more shoddy treatment.

Why would any girl keep coming after a guy that does not treat her right? It doesn't make sense to me and I'm sure it doesn't to you either. That can only mean one thing: Attraction Does Not Work With Common Sense. It is not logical and the moment we understand this, the better.

I'm not in anyway trying to suggest that you should stop caring or loving the girls you meet. Far from it. I only want us to learn a very important lesson.

You see, women love challenges. They love to chase even though most of them will tell you otherwise. When they chase, it makes them feel a strong sexual attraction for you. Don't make yourself available to the girls all the time. Women are not attracted to guys that seem to be "there" and "available" every time they call on them.

Get busy with your work. Get busy with your friends. Get busy dating other women. That way, you will have a great chance with women.

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How To Make Yourself Attractive To Women

You'll love today's article because right here, right now, I'm going to reveal to you, how to make yourself attractive to women. If you've been looking for ways to attract those gorgeous girls you meet regularly, stay with me as I'm about to reveal to you how to go about winning them over.

To make yourself attractive to women, you must understand the fact that women have not changed much since creation. We learnt that in the primitive times, women were attracted to the "strongest" males for protection. They were not attracted to men that could not house them, feed them. clothe them and generally take care if them. When I say "them", that means the women themselves and their children.

We also gathered that such "strong" men were fearless men who did not care what others thought about them. They were confident and they did their things their own way.

We are talking about thousands and thousands of years ago but that is still the situation today. Those are the kind of men women find attractive.

It's not about your looks and your money. Yes, those factors are important but there are many rich, good looking guys that do not do well with women. If you want to do well with women, you must be confident, smart, cocky, funny and have a great carriage.

Your attitude to women is very important. It is more powerful than looks and money. If your attitude is great, you will get all the women you want.

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Monday 13 July 2009

What To Do When Her Boyfriend Shows Up

I'm the first to admit that today's articles is not an exciting one. Infact, thinking about it over and over again will make you have a rethink about the game of dating. I'm not doing this to scare you but just to remind you that whatever we do in life, our health and safety should be the most important factor that spur us on.

Enough of the ramblings.

A friend of mine called me the other day. He was telling me how well he was progressing with the date he was having with a "hot" girl she had met the previous week. According to him, everything was going on well. He had even kissed the girl and was about to make the next move when her boyfriend showed up.

He was surprised because the girl never told him that she had a boyfriend. Not that he cared. Because he didn't know she had a boyfriend, he rudely asked the guy what he was looking for at his girlfriend's house.

Now, this guy (the girl's boyfriend) was a very muscular construction worker. He pounced on my friend, dealt him a few punches and threw him out of the flat.

This story motivated me to tell you this...

Whenever the boyfriend of a girl you're trying to "woo" shows up, you only need to do one thing.

Just walk away.

That's it. Don't fight. Don't argue. Don't ask questions. Just take a walk.

This advice is so important because one day, you will find yourself in such a situation. Remember this article and take a walk.

Peace.

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Sunday 12 July 2009

What To Do After She Gives You Her Number

Although getting a girl's number is not one of the easiest things to do in the world, following up on her after getting her number is actually a more difficult thing to do. Many guys usually get it wrong at this stage and if you get it wrong, your chances of winning the girl over is almost zero.

Let's look at it this way. If you succeed in getting a girls number, what should you do when you get home? Here are the options you're faced with.

1. Call her immediately

2. Call her the next day

3. Wait a few days before you call her

Let's take a look at the three options.

Call Her Immediately

The advantage of this is that you will be following up on her when you're still "fresh" on her mind. If she liked you when you met her and got her number, speaking to her a few hours later won't be a bad idea.

The disadvantage is that you will appear desperate. It will look like you don't have a life and women, especially the beautiful ones do not like that.

Call Her The Next Day

The advantage is that you will still be on her mind the next day. That will encourage the "flow" that started the previous day.

The disadvantage is that you will still appear desperate. If she is a beautiful woman, she will likely have lots of guys falling over themselves to speak to her. If you call her the next day, you will simply join the list of "desperate" guys.

Call Her Days Later

The advantage here is that you will appear to her as someone that is not desperate to have her. It will look like you have a life (you should) and that is what women like. By calling her days later, you will be telling her that you won't be calling her (and bugging her) all the time if you eventually end up dating her.

The disadvantage is that there is a chance she would have forgotten about you. If she is a beautiful girl, a lot of other guys would have approached her and we cannot expect her to remember all the guys she meets.

If we look at the three options above, the best bet is the third option. You have more to gain than to lose. When you call her eventually, just let her know you're the guy that she met a few days ago. Tell her the number you're calling with is your number and that she can call you up if she'll like to. Be brief with your discussion. Make her believe you have a lot to do and make sure you hang us before she does.

Give her space before you call her again. Never put pressure on her. Be laid back. Be arrogant. Be confident. You will have a better chance with her with this approach.


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Saturday 11 July 2009

How To Make A Girl Like You!

Have you ever wished you could woo those gorgeous girls you see regularly meet? I'm sure you're wishing you could lay your hands on a magic wand that will make the girls "go crazy" over you.

Wishful thinking.

In this article today, I'm going to share with you a secret that will increase your chances with the girls. All you need to do is to change your ways a little and the girls will fall for you.

What's that secret? Simple. Just understand how attraction works.

A lot of guys do not understand what attraction is all about. They believe that by being nice to women or by "throwing" money around, girls will like you more. Far from it. That is not the way attraction works. Here are a few points you must understand about attraction.

1. Girls do not choose who they want to be attracted to. No. They just find themselves getting attracted to a guy. Most times however, they find themselves getting attracted to confident, funny, arrogant and mysterious guys. That is why jerks can attract gorgeous girls.

2. Regular meetings do not encourage attraction. This is the opposite of what guys think. In reality, giving a woman space, time, leaving her to miss you will increase attraction. If you see a girl everyday at the beginning trying to show how much you like her, your chances of winning her over will be greatly diminished.

Now that you understand these principles, the next thing you should do is to approach your desired girl in an arrogant way, letting her know you're not like all the other guys that practically worship her. The aim here is just to talk to her and not necessarily to woo her.

Let's assume you're at a party and your eyes "meet", you can walk up to her and say something like this "How do you manage to do that?" She will definitely ask you what you mean. You can then say "You're looking like you're trying to seduce me but you're hitting on the wrong guy".

She will surely be shocked and possibly angry. Whatever she does, do not apologize. You have succeeded in doing something most guys will never do. That makes you different and that will create attraction.

Try and get her number. If you succeed, leave immediately. You have her details. Do not press further. Just disappear. Be mysterious. You can follow up on her days later.

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Thursday 9 July 2009

Stop Giving Excuses For Your Failure With Women

When I was a teenager, my friends and I came to a conclusion that we were not good at attracting "hot" girls because we do not have cars to take them out with. We agreed on this because we regularly saw a lot of girls we admire in other guys cars. We hoped that one day, we would be able to buy our own cars so we could the beautiful girls in our neighbourhood.

Years later, after we bought our own cars but we still couldn't attract the desired girls. The shocking situation we were confronted with was that the beautiful girls were now going out with guys without cars. What was going on? Were cars going out of fashion?

We (my friends and I) then agreed that because we were still living with our parents, attractive girls would not be interested in us. We then went out to rent our own apartments. What happened? Nothing. We still could not attract the girls.

Why am I telling this story? Simple. If you think the reason why you are not able to attract beautiful girls is because of reasons like cars, money and other material things, I want you to perish that thought.

Attraction works deeper than that. Factors like confidence, attitude, arrogance are more powerful than material things.

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Wednesday 8 July 2009

Four Qualities Women Want In Men!

What do women want?

That is the question millions of guys all over the world wish they have an answer to. If someone knows what women want, he'll simply do those things and make the girls fall over him. A lot of people had tried to figure out what women, especially the beautiful ones want.

Okay, I admit it. I don't have all the answers to what women want. I don't claim to be a seer that sees what ordinary mortals cannot see. However, with my experience with women, I have been able to discover some of the things beautiful women want. No. It's not about being nice to them. It's not about telling them how much you love them every hour of the day and its surely not by buying them expensive gifts.

So what do women want? Here are four qualities beautiful women love to see in men.

1. A Life Of Your Own

Attractive women do not like guys that do not have a life of their own. They don't want guys that will not be able to eat, sleep or work without seeing them. They want you to be independent.

2. Confidence

When a woman is with you, she wants you to be very confident of yourself. They want you to be able to handle any situation you find yourself in. They love to tap from such confidence.

3. Intelligence

Attractive women love intelligent guys. You should be well versed in general issues and you should be able to communicate very easily. You don't have to know about environmental issues or about nuclear physics. Just ensure you're able to communicate easily.

4. Funny

You should be able to make a woman laugh once in a while. I'm not suggesting you become a comedian overnight but cracking jokes a few times will make her more relaxed with you.

The list is not exhaustive but the qualities listed above are very critical to your success with women.

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