Let me tell you what happened to me a many years ago. It was that period in my life when I didn't have a clue about how attraction works. I wasn't doing too well with women.
There was this girl I was trying to win over. She invited me over to her house for dinner and I really though that was the chance I was waiting for. I was determined to "hit on her".
After we had a great dinner, we got talking about various topics of interests. While talking, I was struggling to decide when I should make a move on her. My problem was that, there was a different between have a "general" conversation and actually "hitting on her". I did not know how to move from the "general" level to the romantic level.
After about two hours, she started withdrawing from me. She became cold towards me and then, she started to talk about why she should go to bed early as she has to be at work by 7am the next day. I had no option but to say good night.
I did not feel too good about myself that night.
Have this ever happened to you? Did you wonder what went wrong? Did you wonder why you couldn't make a move? The answer to this is that you gave away control. When you allow a woman to dictate what happens next when you're wooing her, you have automatically given away control.
Never give away control. Be the one that initiates what you do next. Be the one to hang up the phone first. Be the one that suggests a venue for your meetings. Focus on having a great life for yourself and don't act like you're not going to be happy without her. Be confident and take control.
That is what women want!
A.A
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Saturday, 4 July 2009
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