Thursday, 16 July 2009

Why Girls Like You More When You Don't Care About Them

Have you ever noticed that girls you don't care about seem to like you more than those you go out of your way to please? I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. If it has never happened to you, I'm pretty sure it has happened to someone you know.

I've lost count of the number of times it has happened to me. I'll meet a girl, get her number, talk to her a few times, meet her once, probably go all the way with her once and then forget about her. To me, she has become a part of my "past". To her, it's just the beginning.

She would call, send SMS and even visit my flat unannounced. Despite all her efforts, I'll still treat her shabbily and she will keep coming back for more. I won't call her. I won't talk to her but she keeps coming back. It seems the comes back for more shoddy treatment.

Why would any girl keep coming after a guy that does not treat her right? It doesn't make sense to me and I'm sure it doesn't to you either. That can only mean one thing: Attraction Does Not Work With Common Sense. It is not logical and the moment we understand this, the better.

I'm not in anyway trying to suggest that you should stop caring or loving the girls you meet. Far from it. I only want us to learn a very important lesson.

You see, women love challenges. They love to chase even though most of them will tell you otherwise. When they chase, it makes them feel a strong sexual attraction for you. Don't make yourself available to the girls all the time. Women are not attracted to guys that seem to be "there" and "available" every time they call on them.

Get busy with your work. Get busy with your friends. Get busy dating other women. That way, you will have a great chance with women.

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How To Make Yourself Attractive To Women

You'll love today's article because right here, right now, I'm going to reveal to you, how to make yourself attractive to women. If you've been looking for ways to attract those gorgeous girls you meet regularly, stay with me as I'm about to reveal to you how to go about winning them over.

To make yourself attractive to women, you must understand the fact that women have not changed much since creation. We learnt that in the primitive times, women were attracted to the "strongest" males for protection. They were not attracted to men that could not house them, feed them. clothe them and generally take care if them. When I say "them", that means the women themselves and their children.

We also gathered that such "strong" men were fearless men who did not care what others thought about them. They were confident and they did their things their own way.

We are talking about thousands and thousands of years ago but that is still the situation today. Those are the kind of men women find attractive.

It's not about your looks and your money. Yes, those factors are important but there are many rich, good looking guys that do not do well with women. If you want to do well with women, you must be confident, smart, cocky, funny and have a great carriage.

Your attitude to women is very important. It is more powerful than looks and money. If your attitude is great, you will get all the women you want.

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Monday, 13 July 2009

What To Do When Her Boyfriend Shows Up

I'm the first to admit that today's articles is not an exciting one. Infact, thinking about it over and over again will make you have a rethink about the game of dating. I'm not doing this to scare you but just to remind you that whatever we do in life, our health and safety should be the most important factor that spur us on.

Enough of the ramblings.

A friend of mine called me the other day. He was telling me how well he was progressing with the date he was having with a "hot" girl she had met the previous week. According to him, everything was going on well. He had even kissed the girl and was about to make the next move when her boyfriend showed up.

He was surprised because the girl never told him that she had a boyfriend. Not that he cared. Because he didn't know she had a boyfriend, he rudely asked the guy what he was looking for at his girlfriend's house.

Now, this guy (the girl's boyfriend) was a very muscular construction worker. He pounced on my friend, dealt him a few punches and threw him out of the flat.

This story motivated me to tell you this...

Whenever the boyfriend of a girl you're trying to "woo" shows up, you only need to do one thing.

Just walk away.

That's it. Don't fight. Don't argue. Don't ask questions. Just take a walk.

This advice is so important because one day, you will find yourself in such a situation. Remember this article and take a walk.

Peace.

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Sunday, 12 July 2009

What To Do After She Gives You Her Number

Although getting a girl's number is not one of the easiest things to do in the world, following up on her after getting her number is actually a more difficult thing to do. Many guys usually get it wrong at this stage and if you get it wrong, your chances of winning the girl over is almost zero.

Let's look at it this way. If you succeed in getting a girls number, what should you do when you get home? Here are the options you're faced with.

1. Call her immediately

2. Call her the next day

3. Wait a few days before you call her

Let's take a look at the three options.

Call Her Immediately

The advantage of this is that you will be following up on her when you're still "fresh" on her mind. If she liked you when you met her and got her number, speaking to her a few hours later won't be a bad idea.

The disadvantage is that you will appear desperate. It will look like you don't have a life and women, especially the beautiful ones do not like that.

Call Her The Next Day

The advantage is that you will still be on her mind the next day. That will encourage the "flow" that started the previous day.

The disadvantage is that you will still appear desperate. If she is a beautiful woman, she will likely have lots of guys falling over themselves to speak to her. If you call her the next day, you will simply join the list of "desperate" guys.

Call Her Days Later

The advantage here is that you will appear to her as someone that is not desperate to have her. It will look like you have a life (you should) and that is what women like. By calling her days later, you will be telling her that you won't be calling her (and bugging her) all the time if you eventually end up dating her.

The disadvantage is that there is a chance she would have forgotten about you. If she is a beautiful girl, a lot of other guys would have approached her and we cannot expect her to remember all the guys she meets.

If we look at the three options above, the best bet is the third option. You have more to gain than to lose. When you call her eventually, just let her know you're the guy that she met a few days ago. Tell her the number you're calling with is your number and that she can call you up if she'll like to. Be brief with your discussion. Make her believe you have a lot to do and make sure you hang us before she does.

Give her space before you call her again. Never put pressure on her. Be laid back. Be arrogant. Be confident. You will have a better chance with her with this approach.


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Saturday, 11 July 2009

How To Make A Girl Like You!

Have you ever wished you could woo those gorgeous girls you see regularly meet? I'm sure you're wishing you could lay your hands on a magic wand that will make the girls "go crazy" over you.

Wishful thinking.

In this article today, I'm going to share with you a secret that will increase your chances with the girls. All you need to do is to change your ways a little and the girls will fall for you.

What's that secret? Simple. Just understand how attraction works.

A lot of guys do not understand what attraction is all about. They believe that by being nice to women or by "throwing" money around, girls will like you more. Far from it. That is not the way attraction works. Here are a few points you must understand about attraction.

1. Girls do not choose who they want to be attracted to. No. They just find themselves getting attracted to a guy. Most times however, they find themselves getting attracted to confident, funny, arrogant and mysterious guys. That is why jerks can attract gorgeous girls.

2. Regular meetings do not encourage attraction. This is the opposite of what guys think. In reality, giving a woman space, time, leaving her to miss you will increase attraction. If you see a girl everyday at the beginning trying to show how much you like her, your chances of winning her over will be greatly diminished.

Now that you understand these principles, the next thing you should do is to approach your desired girl in an arrogant way, letting her know you're not like all the other guys that practically worship her. The aim here is just to talk to her and not necessarily to woo her.

Let's assume you're at a party and your eyes "meet", you can walk up to her and say something like this "How do you manage to do that?" She will definitely ask you what you mean. You can then say "You're looking like you're trying to seduce me but you're hitting on the wrong guy".

She will surely be shocked and possibly angry. Whatever she does, do not apologize. You have succeeded in doing something most guys will never do. That makes you different and that will create attraction.

Try and get her number. If you succeed, leave immediately. You have her details. Do not press further. Just disappear. Be mysterious. You can follow up on her days later.

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Thursday, 9 July 2009

Stop Giving Excuses For Your Failure With Women

When I was a teenager, my friends and I came to a conclusion that we were not good at attracting "hot" girls because we do not have cars to take them out with. We agreed on this because we regularly saw a lot of girls we admire in other guys cars. We hoped that one day, we would be able to buy our own cars so we could the beautiful girls in our neighbourhood.

Years later, after we bought our own cars but we still couldn't attract the desired girls. The shocking situation we were confronted with was that the beautiful girls were now going out with guys without cars. What was going on? Were cars going out of fashion?

We (my friends and I) then agreed that because we were still living with our parents, attractive girls would not be interested in us. We then went out to rent our own apartments. What happened? Nothing. We still could not attract the girls.

Why am I telling this story? Simple. If you think the reason why you are not able to attract beautiful girls is because of reasons like cars, money and other material things, I want you to perish that thought.

Attraction works deeper than that. Factors like confidence, attitude, arrogance are more powerful than material things.

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Wednesday, 8 July 2009

Four Qualities Women Want In Men!

What do women want?

That is the question millions of guys all over the world wish they have an answer to. If someone knows what women want, he'll simply do those things and make the girls fall over him. A lot of people had tried to figure out what women, especially the beautiful ones want.

Okay, I admit it. I don't have all the answers to what women want. I don't claim to be a seer that sees what ordinary mortals cannot see. However, with my experience with women, I have been able to discover some of the things beautiful women want. No. It's not about being nice to them. It's not about telling them how much you love them every hour of the day and its surely not by buying them expensive gifts.

So what do women want? Here are four qualities beautiful women love to see in men.

1. A Life Of Your Own

Attractive women do not like guys that do not have a life of their own. They don't want guys that will not be able to eat, sleep or work without seeing them. They want you to be independent.

2. Confidence

When a woman is with you, she wants you to be very confident of yourself. They want you to be able to handle any situation you find yourself in. They love to tap from such confidence.

3. Intelligence

Attractive women love intelligent guys. You should be well versed in general issues and you should be able to communicate very easily. You don't have to know about environmental issues or about nuclear physics. Just ensure you're able to communicate easily.

4. Funny

You should be able to make a woman laugh once in a while. I'm not suggesting you become a comedian overnight but cracking jokes a few times will make her more relaxed with you.

The list is not exhaustive but the qualities listed above are very critical to your success with women.

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Monday, 6 July 2009

How To Keep A Gorgeous Girlfriend!

Are you dating a gorgeous girl? Do you want to keep her? If you answered yes to that, then you have to apply the techniques I'm about to share with you in this article. If you don't, there is a chance she'll find another guy or even go back to his ex.

When a girl agrees to become your girlfriend, having some important facts at the back of your mind is critical. Let's discuss some of them.

1. When a girl says yes to you, what she is saying in essence is that she likes you for NOW! She likes the way you are acting NOW! You're in control, you're exciting, you're unpredictable and she likes it. If you start acting differently, she will become bored. If you start acting like you don't have a life and that you cannot survive without her, you're on your way to losing her.

2. Gorgeous girls get attention all the time. They are used to being complimented. They are used to being stared at. They are used to being asked out for lunch. They are used to receiving gifts from men. Most guys act in a predictable and boring way and they are used to it. They know what a guy will likely say when he approaches them. You probably got her because you were different, unique and exciting. Just be that same guy.

3. Gorgeous girls need time and space. Like I mentioned above, gorgeous women get a lot of attention and they always look for way to fend such off. When you're dating a gorgeous girl, give her time and space. Do not call her twenty times a day to tell her you love her. Just do your thing. Focus on your work and career and let her see that you can have a great life without her.

You'll be better off in her reckoning than all the guys falling over themselves to woo her.

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Sunday, 5 July 2009

How To Easily And Confidently Approach A Lady!

I'm sure you have an idea of what I want to talk about. If you're a guy reading this, you must have, at least once, found yourself in a situation where you wanted to approach a lady but for one reason or the other, you failed to approach her. You could not talk to her and you went home disappointed.

You're not alone. It has happened to me more than once. I used to wonder what the problem was but today, I know what the problem is and I'm going to share it with you in this article.

Whether you like it or not, the reason why many guys cannot approach women is simple. It is called FEAR! Admit it and you'll be better off.

There are different kinds of fear. Fear of what she will say. Fear of being embarrassed, fear of being rejected, fear of being laughed at, fear of how those around would act, fear of fear itself and so on.

Let me tell you something. Most of the things we fear in life do not happen. I totally agree with top motivational speaker, Zig Ziglar with his definition of fear. He called it False Evidence Appearing Real.

The only way to overcome fear is to confront it. Just go ahead and talk to her. There are so many terrible things happening in this world of ours. People are dying all over the place through natural disasters. What is the big deal if you have to talk to a girl.

Think about it. The worst thing that can happen when you approach a girl is for her to say NO. That won't cost you anything.

Just go ahead and talk to her.

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Saturday, 4 July 2009

Dating Tip: Don't Let Her Take Control!

Let me tell you what happened to me a many years ago. It was that period in my life when I didn't have a clue about how attraction works. I wasn't doing too well with women.

There was this girl I was trying to win over. She invited me over to her house for dinner and I really though that was the chance I was waiting for. I was determined to "hit on her".

After we had a great dinner, we got talking about various topics of interests. While talking, I was struggling to decide when I should make a move on her. My problem was that, there was a different between have a "general" conversation and actually "hitting on her". I did not know how to move from the "general" level to the romantic level.

After about two hours, she started withdrawing from me. She became cold towards me and then, she started to talk about why she should go to bed early as she has to be at work by 7am the next day. I had no option but to say good night.

I did not feel too good about myself that night.

Have this ever happened to you? Did you wonder what went wrong? Did you wonder why you couldn't make a move? The answer to this is that you gave away control. When you allow a woman to dictate what happens next when you're wooing her, you have automatically given away control.

Never give away control. Be the one that initiates what you do next. Be the one to hang up the phone first. Be the one that suggests a venue for your meetings. Focus on having a great life for yourself and don't act like you're not going to be happy without her. Be confident and take control.

That is what women want!

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Friday, 3 July 2009

More Mistakes Guys Make With Women!

A lot have been written about why most guys do not succeed with women. Experts, authors, publishers, counsellors, columnists, bloggers and so on have all giving their opinions. I'm not left out. In the past, I've written about why many guys fail with women. I gave reasons like trying to convince a girl to like you, trying to be a nice guy and trying to buy her with gifts.

In this article today, I want to look into other mistakes most guys make with women apart from the ones I mentioned above.

Ready? Let's roll...

1. Not Being Able To "Hide" Your Feelings About Her

Okay. I admit it. Despite my "tough guy" attitude towards women, there have been times when I met women and was instantly swayed. If that happens to you, make sure you conceal it from her. If you let her know too early that you've fallen for her, you would have greatly diminished your chances of winning her over?

Why did I say that? Simple. You see, most beautiful women have lots of admirers that show them affection day in day out and they are bored of such men. If you begin to show it too early, you will simply join the long list of admirers.

2. Trying To Please Her All The Time

This is one of the traits that irritate women a lot. Women do not want men to look up to them all the time before they make decisions. They want to be "carried along" but they want to look up to their men and not the other way round.

If you try to please a beautiful woman all the time, she will not be attracted to you. They want a but of pride and arrogance from you. Don't appear to be a weakling.

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Thursday, 2 July 2009

Top 3 Mistakes Guys Make With Women!

How successful have you been with women? If you're great with women, accept my congratulations. It simply means it's either you're "naturally" good with women or you've mastered the techniques that work with women.

Most guys do not succeed with women. They do not know what works. This makes them fail miserably and they keep wondering why some guys keep getting all the girls while they fail to attract the pretty girls out there even though they consider themselves as nice guys.

The reason why some guys succeed with women is that they do the things that attract women while those that fail with women make mistakes. There are many of such mistakes and in this article, we are going to deal with three of them. I consider them as the top three mistakes guys make with women.

Mistake Number One: They Try To Make Women See Reasons Why They Should Like Them

This is a big mistake. Being attracted to a guy is not a thing girls plan to do. It just happens. It's not something that has to do with logic and reasoning. If a girl is not attracted to a guy, giving her reasons why she should be is not going to work.

Mistake Number Two: They Try To Be A Nice Guy

Being nice does not work with women. It will not make them develop attraction for you. most guys do not get this. Trying to be too nice will only portray you as being desperate and that is not what women, especially the beautiful ones like.

Mistake Number Three: They Want To Buy Her With Gifts

I have a friend that has been trying for months to win a girl over with expensive gifts. While it's a nice thing to occassionally surprise a girl you admire with cute gifts, overdoing it is not a good thing to do. When you overdo it, you portray yourself as a weakling who cannot be accepted except he buys his way through. This is a turn off for women.

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Wednesday, 1 July 2009

A Review of How To Be A Lady Killer Ebook!

If you're not new to surfing the Internet looking for great information on dating, then you must have come across Paul Handforth report on how to succeed with women. He calls is "How To Be A Lady Killer".

The first thing that struck me about the report was the title. How to be a lady killer was kind of strange. Lady killer? What's this guy talking about? I didn't have to wait long before I go an answer.

You see, dating, wooing and attracting women, especially the beautiful ones is like a war. You kill, or you get killed. When you succeed, there is a great feeling triumph that comes over you.

I'm sure you're thinking this ebook is just about the name. Far from it. There are loads of goodies for anyone who wants to increase his chances with women. It talks about the important factors needed. Determining what women want, how attraction works, pick up line tips, conversational techniques, first date secrets and lots more.

Here are the other reasons why this book won me over.

1. There are bonuses worth about $97 for picking up a copy.

2. It comes with a 56 day money back guaranteed.

Now, this is a no brainer.

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Is It True Women Are Attracted To Jerks?

"Women are attracted to jerks". "Jerks date the hottest women". "Jerks are better with women"...

The above are statements from dating experts. They reckon that nice guys do not attract the hottest women.

In a way, they have a point. From time to time, I've seen very beautiful women hang out with guys that disrecpect them and treat them badly. Why would any beautiful woman be with such a guy. I'm sure you've seen such a thing around you. The bad guys get the good girls.

The question is: why do women choose to be attracted to the bad guys? In most cases, they do not choose to. Rather, they just find themselves getting attracted to such guys.

You see, women love guys that are confident, arrogant and independent. They are also attracted to guys that are slightly selfish and a bit unpredictable. Most guys do not combine these attributes. Jerks do.

So do we all have to become jerks to attract the hot ladies? No. What we should do is realize that being a good guy is not what girls are looking for. They want guys with the above listed attributes. If you can act that way, you'll have a great chance with women.

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Tuesday, 30 June 2009

Why Girls Don't Like Nice Guys!

Have you ever seen a beautiful girl dating a guy you consider a jerk? Did you wonder why such a girl was not going out with a nice guy like you?

Quit wondering. You are not the first guy to think along these lines and you will not be the last because it happens around us all the time. The bad guys get the good girls. The nice guys are left with next to nothing.

Many years ago, before I discovered what I'm about to share with you here, I used to feel very bad about this. Today, I do not worry about it as I have since found out that being nice will not make a girl like you. Yes, you read that right. Being nice to a girl does not mean she is going to like you.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying a girl will not like you simply because you're "naturally" a nice person. No. What I'm saying is that if a girl does not feel any form of attraction for you, being nice will not make her develop attraction for you.

A lot of guys get this wrong. They try to become a nicer person in order to make a girl like them. What they end up doing eventually is that they appear desperate to impress. They end up looking like weaklings.

Make no mistake about it. Women are not attracted to weaklings. Stop playing nice guy to that girl you like so much. It's hurting your chances of winning her over.

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